GolfMagic’s Ben Smith spent three days walking inside the ropes with Rory McIlroy at the 2025 Ryder Cup at Bethpage Black in New York.
One of the privileges of media accreditation at an event like the Ryder Cup is the chance to watch the action up close. In truth, it isn’t essential — only photographers, broadcasters and commentators really need to be that close. But when given the opportunity, it would be foolish not to take it.
The experience, surreal in Rome and no different at Bethpage, comes with strict rules. Accredited media are reminded not to bother players or caddies, to keep an arm’s length from the rope line, to avoid filming, and crucially, to duck or kneel when shots are being played so fans behind can see.
Unfortunately, many chose to ignore that last rule throughout the week, a lack of consideration that was impossible to miss. That’s why the actions of Scottie Scheffler’s mother, Diane, stood out on Sunday.
As Scheffler played a weary Rory McIlroy in the singles, Diane was the only person on the 14th tee to kneel down. Around her, fans rose on tiptoe, phones raised, blocking the view of those who had waited hours for a glimpse of two of the world’s best players. A few chants of “down in front” broke out, but they were ignored. Diane’s small gesture, though, was a reminder of respect and decency — values sorely lacking at Bethpage.
Despite its drama, this Ryder Cup will be remembered as much for the behavior of a minority of U.S. fans as the golf itself. For all the brilliance of the contest, too often it descended into a circus.
McIlroy, as expected, became public enemy number one for the week. He was booed at the opening session, but he responded with smiles, blown kisses, and good humor. Some barbs about his U.S. Open collapse or the infamous Masters choke even made him laugh. One fan joked as he adjusted his collar that he didn’t need a button to choke — a sharp quip that McIlroy took in stride.
But while most comments were lighthearted, too many others crossed the line. In that sense, Diane Scheffler’s quiet respect stood as the rare example of how fans — and even those closest to the action — should conduct themselves.
